Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girls never know what they want
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
i don't believe that much in the overall truth of it but I believe in some cases you treat the queen like a ***** and the ***** like a queen. Be different and you will get a different result. Different isn't always good.
The other seemingly appropriate thing is don't always believe what women say. Sometimes it is a test and sometimes the don't know what they want. Some truth to the adage be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
The other seemingly appropriate thing is don't always believe what women say. Sometimes it is a test and sometimes the don't know what they want. Some truth to the adage be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
yunghova35
Don Juan
i think i know where you went wrong.
you say you used c and f and it shows because she called you an *******, BUT what you forget is to build attraction, i didnt seee anything about you touching her, kissing her, MAKE A MOVE.
shes waiting on it, she's wondering why you havent and if you have been out with her more than a few times and you haven't tried ANYTHING she may be thinnking your gay
you say you used c and f and it shows because she called you an *******, BUT what you forget is to build attraction, i didnt seee anything about you touching her, kissing her, MAKE A MOVE.
shes waiting on it, she's wondering why you havent and if you have been out with her more than a few times and you haven't tried ANYTHING she may be thinnking your gay
biker_gixxer
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You're right, girls often times don't know what they want. But guess what, it doesn't matter.
See, I know exactly what they want and when I feel they're ready, I'll let them know what it is. Feel me?
See, I know exactly what they want and when I feel they're ready, I'll let them know what it is. Feel me?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
It doesn't matter if they know what they want or not, as long as you make her want you.
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My perspective on this is that you weren't ****ey and funny but just insulting. Just because you think you are being funny, and you actually may be, she could be so self conscious that it was insulting to her. We never really know how someone else ego's is built. Me personally when I kid around I try not to touch personal jokes unless I strongly believe the person can take it, if not Im going to joke about everything else.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.
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"A$$hole" is a very vague term. If you were to take a big steamy dump on her pillow, I'm sure she'd think you were an a$$hole, but she wouldn't want to date you.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.