Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girls never know what they want
- Thread starter Swede54
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Donald Kaufman
Don Juan
i don't believe that much in the overall truth of it but I believe in some cases you treat the queen like a ***** and the ***** like a queen. Be different and you will get a different result. Different isn't always good.
The other seemingly appropriate thing is don't always believe what women say. Sometimes it is a test and sometimes the don't know what they want. Some truth to the adage be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
The other seemingly appropriate thing is don't always believe what women say. Sometimes it is a test and sometimes the don't know what they want. Some truth to the adage be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.
yunghova35
Don Juan
i think i know where you went wrong.
you say you used c and f and it shows because she called you an *******, BUT what you forget is to build attraction, i didnt seee anything about you touching her, kissing her, MAKE A MOVE.
shes waiting on it, she's wondering why you havent and if you have been out with her more than a few times and you haven't tried ANYTHING she may be thinnking your gay
you say you used c and f and it shows because she called you an *******, BUT what you forget is to build attraction, i didnt seee anything about you touching her, kissing her, MAKE A MOVE.
shes waiting on it, she's wondering why you havent and if you have been out with her more than a few times and you haven't tried ANYTHING she may be thinnking your gay
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You're right, girls often times don't know what they want. But guess what, it doesn't matter.
See, I know exactly what they want and when I feel they're ready, I'll let them know what it is. Feel me?
See, I know exactly what they want and when I feel they're ready, I'll let them know what it is. Feel me?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don Juanabbe
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It doesn't matter if they know what they want or not, as long as you make her want you.
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My perspective on this is that you weren't ****ey and funny but just insulting. Just because you think you are being funny, and you actually may be, she could be so self conscious that it was insulting to her. We never really know how someone else ego's is built. Me personally when I kid around I try not to touch personal jokes unless I strongly believe the person can take it, if not Im going to joke about everything else.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.
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"A$$hole" is a very vague term. If you were to take a big steamy dump on her pillow, I'm sure she'd think you were an a$$hole, but she wouldn't want to date you.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok this is kinda a funny one. Well im a pretty C&F guy naturally, i bust alot of balls and stuff. So this girl i had a thing for was telling me how shes always attracted to *******s and all that stuff. So i started busting her balls a little more, nothing to bad really. Then low and behold, she didnt want to be my friend because "Your a *******". Now i completely believe opposites are the answer. Just like believed girls never know what they want. So i made a bad move in trying to go with it.