"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls interested in me...do i have to talk to her daily to keep her intrest?

shark

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Well, she basically told me she's interested in me. But if I dont see her in school or dont talk online, is that BAD? Is it good? or is it neither?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Marf

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You SHOULDEN'T talk to her every day...thats a sign of neediness (that you can't do anything without her). Instead don't worry, you'll probably want to get a few more prospects; so you always have something to do (unless you have a relationship with this girl....)
 

blinkwatt

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Not seeing her everyday is good,cause it makes it seem like you have more of a life and more to do(social value). Just make sure you get her number and arrrange a date with her.
 

IceboltsGRL

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As a girl, we all like guys to call us and be attentive. But what attracts us more towards one is that he shows stability and independency.:cheer:
 

Nexxus

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I made the mistake of continuously talkin' to her, then later i made the mistake of totally ignoring her, later I didn't make any of the mistakes except she gradually lost interest in me cuz i didn't ask her out... so basically ask her out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Debonaire

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finally, another girl on the forums

welcome, hun :)
 

Limitless

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
finally, another girl on the forums

welcome, hun :)
yeah , you were getting lonely being the only eh =P
 

Patrick124

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questin: my girl who i've hooked upw ith and chilled with 3 times and I both use aim for about an hour[or 1.5] a day, usually at night. we're basicly ALWAYS on at the same time, which is kinda ****ty cause she always IMs me. and i kinda liek this one, so i'll respond.
but this is daily. I know i shouldn't talk to her so much[its usalyl about a half hour a day], its not liek to to talk to any other girls this often...but our conversations are always lively and fun.
I'm going to cutback and find stuff to do at night now jsut to avoid these conversations some. But do you think i've damaged my game at all[trust me, from out chill-sessions she is REALLY into me]??
and lastly, last night right before i got offline she goes[it fit into the conversation, wasn't jsut random] but she said "i'm running out of stories." bad sign?is she getting bored with me?when she said thsis he was implying she wnated to ehar one of my stories but i was getting off. anyways, thanks DJs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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