"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls interested in me...do i have to talk to her daily to keep her intrest?

shark

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Well, she basically told me she's interested in me. But if I dont see her in school or dont talk online, is that BAD? Is it good? or is it neither?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Marf

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You SHOULDEN'T talk to her every day...thats a sign of neediness (that you can't do anything without her). Instead don't worry, you'll probably want to get a few more prospects; so you always have something to do (unless you have a relationship with this girl....)
 

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Not seeing her everyday is good,cause it makes it seem like you have more of a life and more to do(social value). Just make sure you get her number and arrrange a date with her.
 

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As a girl, we all like guys to call us and be attentive. But what attracts us more towards one is that he shows stability and independency.:cheer:
 

Nexxus

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I made the mistake of continuously talkin' to her, then later i made the mistake of totally ignoring her, later I didn't make any of the mistakes except she gradually lost interest in me cuz i didn't ask her out... so basically ask her out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mr. Debonaire

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finally, another girl on the forums

welcome, hun :)
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
finally, another girl on the forums

welcome, hun :)
yeah , you were getting lonely being the only eh =P
 

Patrick124

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questin: my girl who i've hooked upw ith and chilled with 3 times and I both use aim for about an hour[or 1.5] a day, usually at night. we're basicly ALWAYS on at the same time, which is kinda ****ty cause she always IMs me. and i kinda liek this one, so i'll respond.
but this is daily. I know i shouldn't talk to her so much[its usalyl about a half hour a day], its not liek to to talk to any other girls this often...but our conversations are always lively and fun.
I'm going to cutback and find stuff to do at night now jsut to avoid these conversations some. But do you think i've damaged my game at all[trust me, from out chill-sessions she is REALLY into me]??
and lastly, last night right before i got offline she goes[it fit into the conversation, wasn't jsut random] but she said "i'm running out of stories." bad sign?is she getting bored with me?when she said thsis he was implying she wnated to ehar one of my stories but i was getting off. anyways, thanks DJs.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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