"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zapp Brannigan

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You have a girl that's in a LTR and it's with a guy that's a little less attractive. Not to much of a difference, but enough of one to wonder if she did it to have the power. You can tell the BF really cares, and the girl also seems to. She'll post about him on social media, but also puts occasional attention seeking things for any possible orbiters. Away from her boyfriend she'll act interested in a guy/guys but will pretend they don't exist when with her boyfriend. She'll at times when talking to another guy act as if shes expecting/hoping for them to ask her out, and gets jealous when these guys so much as talk to another girl.

What does this mean for the boyfriend? and the other guys? I'm really confused by this. This seems to be really common with girls now adays.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women will always monopolize male attention if given the chance....

Men are way too quick to give their attention and time away. Chasing women in ltrs is not a fruitful event and time should be better spent on high quality and interested single chicks. She would have to find you significantly more attractive in order to leave her boyfriend for another man, unless she is a wh0re. By the way she ignores other men when he is around........she finds him attractive. Find more interested women pal.
 
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A lot of girls like the attention from other guys and some will leave or cheat when they find someone better. I know people who go through relationships like crazy. They don't mean that much and they only need a particular guy for the time. Then it's off to the next guy.
 
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