"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls in LTRs

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Zapp Brannigan

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You have a girl that's in a LTR and it's with a guy that's a little less attractive. Not to much of a difference, but enough of one to wonder if she did it to have the power. You can tell the BF really cares, and the girl also seems to. She'll post about him on social media, but also puts occasional attention seeking things for any possible orbiters. Away from her boyfriend she'll act interested in a guy/guys but will pretend they don't exist when with her boyfriend. She'll at times when talking to another guy act as if shes expecting/hoping for them to ask her out, and gets jealous when these guys so much as talk to another girl.

What does this mean for the boyfriend? and the other guys? I'm really confused by this. This seems to be really common with girls now adays.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheException

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Women will always monopolize male attention if given the chance....

Men are way too quick to give their attention and time away. Chasing women in ltrs is not a fruitful event and time should be better spent on high quality and interested single chicks. She would have to find you significantly more attractive in order to leave her boyfriend for another man, unless she is a wh0re. By the way she ignores other men when he is around........she finds him attractive. Find more interested women pal.
 
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A lot of girls like the attention from other guys and some will leave or cheat when they find someone better. I know people who go through relationships like crazy. They don't mean that much and they only need a particular guy for the time. Then it's off to the next guy.
 
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