"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls in LTRs

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Zapp Brannigan

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You have a girl that's in a LTR and it's with a guy that's a little less attractive. Not to much of a difference, but enough of one to wonder if she did it to have the power. You can tell the BF really cares, and the girl also seems to. She'll post about him on social media, but also puts occasional attention seeking things for any possible orbiters. Away from her boyfriend she'll act interested in a guy/guys but will pretend they don't exist when with her boyfriend. She'll at times when talking to another guy act as if shes expecting/hoping for them to ask her out, and gets jealous when these guys so much as talk to another girl.

What does this mean for the boyfriend? and the other guys? I'm really confused by this. This seems to be really common with girls now adays.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women will always monopolize male attention if given the chance....

Men are way too quick to give their attention and time away. Chasing women in ltrs is not a fruitful event and time should be better spent on high quality and interested single chicks. She would have to find you significantly more attractive in order to leave her boyfriend for another man, unless she is a wh0re. By the way she ignores other men when he is around........she finds him attractive. Find more interested women pal.
 
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A lot of girls like the attention from other guys and some will leave or cheat when they find someone better. I know people who go through relationships like crazy. They don't mean that much and they only need a particular guy for the time. Then it's off to the next guy.
 
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