"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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EyeBRollin

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Asking for social media is weak. Cut it out & get off that shvt. Be a leader and ask for the number.

“Can I have your <social media>” = Can I please be your orbiter? Please?!

Guys, unless you have a business there is no benefit to being on social media. It does not help you with women. It only kills your mystery. Delete social media.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A lot of 30+ women are now complaining about being hit on while using LinkedIn. I agree that LinkedIn is not ideal for hitting on women. It's difficult to get a lot of these careerist women out of business mode.
You mean bragging?
When I see these types of posts in my LinkedIn News Feed, it is usually women 30+. I've never seen a woman in her 20s make this post on LinkedIn. Anyway, when this post happens on LinkedIn, it always gets a ton of comments. I have seen women call out other women for bragging about getting hit on rather than actually complaining about it. However, more women chime in supporting the woman posting about how annoying it is to be hit on while using the LinkedIn platform.

Women getting hit on while using LinkedIn is a sign of male thirst.

Chatting over text can end up wasting a lot of time.
For sure. There shouldn't be any chatting via text message. Logistics only unless she's a declared girlfriend. Even as a declared girlfriend, there shouldn't be much conversation.

Guys, unless you have a business there is no benefit to being on social media. It does not help you with women. It only kills your mystery. Delete social media.
Correct. Most employees feel that they have to be on LinkedIn. Self-employed and business leaders as well feel the need to have a LinkedIn presence. Twitter has some effect for branding purposes as well.

The business uses for social media are rather limited.

Almost no men need to be on Instagram. A lot of Instagram is for women to accumulate orbiters and self-promote.

I do not have an Instagram. I barely use Facebook and Twitter. I have been most active on LinkedIn over time of all the social networks.
 
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