"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girls flakes after showing some interest, should i reply?

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what does a no response actually do to the female mind.. like does she assume you've taken it as a rejection and accepted it and moved on..? or does it make no difference if she's not interested as it just does her a favor?

i usually respond after a flakey message when she hasn't counter offered giving them a hard time about them blowing their chances with me.. but this time i thought i might try not responding at all to see where it goes and IF she contacts me again cos she sounded pretty excited about meeting up again the last message she sent me..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pete101 said:
i usually respond after a flakey message when she hasn't counter offered giving them a hard time about them blowing their chances with me.. but this time i thought i might try not responding at all to see where it goes .
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I wouldn't do either. I would simply say "Oh ok, no problem" and go on with my life.

Any other response (or lack thereof) seems desperate, bitter, done out of frustration, etc. That's why I pay it no mind.
 
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I've had friends of mine, as well as myself, get calls/texts out of the blue by former pick ups that we nexted because we lost interest.

Surprisingly, they're open to being re-spun.
 
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