girls flakes after showing some interest, should i reply?

[pete101]

what does a no response actually do to the female mind.. like does she assume you've taken it as a rejection and accepted it and moved on..? or does it make no difference if she's not interested as it just does her a favor?

i usually respond after a flakey message when she hasn't counter offered giving them a hard time about them blowing their chances with me.. but this time i thought i might try not responding at all to see where it goes and IF she contacts me again cos she sounded pretty excited about meeting up again the last message she sent me..

 

[tsmith2334]

i usually respond after a flakey message when she hasn't counter offered giving them a hard time about them blowing their chances with me.. but this time i thought i might try not responding at all to see where it goes .

I wouldn't do either. I would simply say "Oh ok, no problem" and go on with my life.

Any other response (or lack thereof) seems desperate, bitter, done out of frustration, etc. That's why I pay it no mind.

 

[Lord Shinra]

I've had friends of mine, as well as myself, get calls/texts out of the blue by former pick ups that we nexted because we lost interest.

Surprisingly, they're open to being re-spun.