"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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girls flakes after showing some interest, should i reply?

pete101

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what does a no response actually do to the female mind.. like does she assume you've taken it as a rejection and accepted it and moved on..? or does it make no difference if she's not interested as it just does her a favor?

i usually respond after a flakey message when she hasn't counter offered giving them a hard time about them blowing their chances with me.. but this time i thought i might try not responding at all to see where it goes and IF she contacts me again cos she sounded pretty excited about meeting up again the last message she sent me..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pete101 said:
i usually respond after a flakey message when she hasn't counter offered giving them a hard time about them blowing their chances with me.. but this time i thought i might try not responding at all to see where it goes .
I wouldn't do either. I would simply say "Oh ok, no problem" and go on with my life.

Any other response (or lack thereof) seems desperate, bitter, done out of frustration, etc. That's why I pay it no mind.
 
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I've had friends of mine, as well as myself, get calls/texts out of the blue by former pick ups that we nexted because we lost interest.

Surprisingly, they're open to being re-spun.
 
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