"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl's Ex won't stay away

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SamMalone

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I'm seeing this girl that's way into me. Things are going good but her ex won't leave her alone. She woke up in her room one night and he was drunk and staring at her, and last saturday when she was over somebody (had to be him) wrecked her apartment.

She wants to confront him and talk about it but I think it's a bad situation to put herself in cause this guy could be violent. Any thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desert Fox

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don't be captain save a ho. she can call the cops if she really wanted to...sounds serious. In any case, stay out of it, bang her and what not, but don't get involved in this bullsh1t. it could get you hurt or killed if you really think this dude is dangerous. not worth any chick to get hurt over man
 
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KontrollerX

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Have her file a restraining order.

Its a lot safer and does not put your or her life in jeopardy from a direct confrontation with this guy.

If she insists on confrontation however tell her to do it by phone and be done with it.

Also have her change the locks to wherever she lives so she doesn't get anymore surprises from this guy.
 
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