"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl's Ex won't stay away

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SamMalone

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I'm seeing this girl that's way into me. Things are going good but her ex won't leave her alone. She woke up in her room one night and he was drunk and staring at her, and last saturday when she was over somebody (had to be him) wrecked her apartment.

She wants to confront him and talk about it but I think it's a bad situation to put herself in cause this guy could be violent. Any thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desert Fox

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don't be captain save a ho. she can call the cops if she really wanted to...sounds serious. In any case, stay out of it, bang her and what not, but don't get involved in this bullsh1t. it could get you hurt or killed if you really think this dude is dangerous. not worth any chick to get hurt over man
 
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KontrollerX

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Have her file a restraining order.

Its a lot safer and does not put your or her life in jeopardy from a direct confrontation with this guy.

If she insists on confrontation however tell her to do it by phone and be done with it.

Also have her change the locks to wherever she lives so she doesn't get anymore surprises from this guy.
 
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