"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl's Ex won't stay away

SamMalone

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I'm seeing this girl that's way into me. Things are going good but her ex won't leave her alone. She woke up in her room one night and he was drunk and staring at her, and last saturday when she was over somebody (had to be him) wrecked her apartment.

She wants to confront him and talk about it but I think it's a bad situation to put herself in cause this guy could be violent. Any thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desert Fox

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don't be captain save a ho. she can call the cops if she really wanted to...sounds serious. In any case, stay out of it, bang her and what not, but don't get involved in this bullsh1t. it could get you hurt or killed if you really think this dude is dangerous. not worth any chick to get hurt over man
 

KontrollerX

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Have her file a restraining order.

Its a lot safer and does not put your or her life in jeopardy from a direct confrontation with this guy.

If she insists on confrontation however tell her to do it by phone and be done with it.

Also have her change the locks to wherever she lives so she doesn't get anymore surprises from this guy.
 
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