"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl's Ex won't stay away

SamMalone

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I'm seeing this girl that's way into me. Things are going good but her ex won't leave her alone. She woke up in her room one night and he was drunk and staring at her, and last saturday when she was over somebody (had to be him) wrecked her apartment.

She wants to confront him and talk about it but I think it's a bad situation to put herself in cause this guy could be violent. Any thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desert Fox

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don't be captain save a ho. she can call the cops if she really wanted to...sounds serious. In any case, stay out of it, bang her and what not, but don't get involved in this bullsh1t. it could get you hurt or killed if you really think this dude is dangerous. not worth any chick to get hurt over man
 

KontrollerX

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Have her file a restraining order.

Its a lot safer and does not put your or her life in jeopardy from a direct confrontation with this guy.

If she insists on confrontation however tell her to do it by phone and be done with it.

Also have her change the locks to wherever she lives so she doesn't get anymore surprises from this guy.
 
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