"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girls don't like me, what should i do?
- Thread starter Shaked
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
but read the bible first. lots of good quality information there for you to get started.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
I came to this forum because i really needed help, not to be told to stop taking showers or be called insane, or to be called p****
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
we're not being *******s, we're actually telling you what to do. read the DJ bible, top right corner
we read posts like this daily, and its getting REALLY irritating
Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
First when you describe nice do you mean the ***** who cant stick up for yourself and your beliefs or are you someone who puts theirselves first?
Your influenced by society way too much it does not matter if you're single or have 10 girlfriends, its your weak attitude and frame thats making you seem pathetic.
You're thought shouldn't be "all girls hate me boohoo" it should be "all girls love me".
Most of these guys don't care whether you're on this board or not, they dont care if im on this board or not and they dont care if anyone else is on this board or not. We have all the information in the DJ bible and other seduction sources needed to be great with women.
Don't bother reading things about C&F and negs and techniques yet, learn about inner beliefs, inner game, alpha body language and all the internal things. When you have all that perfected then you'll have girls flocking around you and you'll be answering posts with "READ THE ****ING BIBLE"
Michael Chief
Senior Don Juan
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Shaked, if you ever read this, uh...read this:
Your mindset is the polar opposite of an attractive male's mindset.
The only reason people here were mean to you is that we use to have this mindset, too. Alot of us were in your shoes once...and we look back at ourselves when we were like that in a sick combination of disgust and humor.
Those of us who are remotely successful with girls now think EXTREMELY different from how you think.
If you choose not to start your long journey on becoming attractive because you're scared off by these kind of responses, then that sucks for you....because you've got ALOT to learn.
I suggest you suck it in and remind yourself that you have balls - and listen.
...You ****ing *****
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJ Hawtness
Don Juan
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You're an idiot. Why would you even bother posting immediately. You should have been checking the site, reading articles...that would have been the most logical thing to do.
Now, I know that the people on this thread are being harsh, but it's the truth. You have a brain use it.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
and of course god damn boy! click on the dj bible first before posting!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Wow, you're giving up on this forum THAT quickly? You seem to give up on a LOT of things quickly.....and I wonder why you aren't good with women? HMMMM....
and that my friend...is the exact reason why these guys get all the girls...haha
confidence my friend..that feeling of "i can do it and iam going to" or "i can handle it" feling you get when your sitting down in front of your lousy computer dominating diablo over and over and controlling the game. if you actually channel that confidence into every aspect of your life...you will find that girls are more addicting that the internet...and you will regret you ever posted this...
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.