"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girls don't like me, what should i do?
- Thread starter Shaked
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
but read the bible first. lots of good quality information there for you to get started.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
I came to this forum because i really needed help, not to be told to stop taking showers or be called insane, or to be called p****
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
we're not being *******s, we're actually telling you what to do. read the DJ bible, top right corner
we read posts like this daily, and its getting REALLY irritating
Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
First when you describe nice do you mean the ***** who cant stick up for yourself and your beliefs or are you someone who puts theirselves first?
Your influenced by society way too much it does not matter if you're single or have 10 girlfriends, its your weak attitude and frame thats making you seem pathetic.
You're thought shouldn't be "all girls hate me boohoo" it should be "all girls love me".
Most of these guys don't care whether you're on this board or not, they dont care if im on this board or not and they dont care if anyone else is on this board or not. We have all the information in the DJ bible and other seduction sources needed to be great with women.
Don't bother reading things about C&F and negs and techniques yet, learn about inner beliefs, inner game, alpha body language and all the internal things. When you have all that perfected then you'll have girls flocking around you and you'll be answering posts with "READ THE ****ING BIBLE"
Michael Chief
Senior Don Juan
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Shaked, if you ever read this, uh...read this:
Your mindset is the polar opposite of an attractive male's mindset.
The only reason people here were mean to you is that we use to have this mindset, too. Alot of us were in your shoes once...and we look back at ourselves when we were like that in a sick combination of disgust and humor.
Those of us who are remotely successful with girls now think EXTREMELY different from how you think.
If you choose not to start your long journey on becoming attractive because you're scared off by these kind of responses, then that sucks for you....because you've got ALOT to learn.
I suggest you suck it in and remind yourself that you have balls - and listen.
...You ****ing *****
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DJ Hawtness
Don Juan
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You're an idiot. Why would you even bother posting immediately. You should have been checking the site, reading articles...that would have been the most logical thing to do.
Now, I know that the people on this thread are being harsh, but it's the truth. You have a brain use it.
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
and of course god damn boy! click on the dj bible first before posting!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Wow, you're giving up on this forum THAT quickly? You seem to give up on a LOT of things quickly.....and I wonder why you aren't good with women? HMMMM....
and that my friend...is the exact reason why these guys get all the girls...haha
confidence my friend..that feeling of "i can do it and iam going to" or "i can handle it" feling you get when your sitting down in front of your lousy computer dominating diablo over and over and controlling the game. if you actually channel that confidence into every aspect of your life...you will find that girls are more addicting that the internet...and you will regret you ever posted this...
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.