"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
girls don't approach me very often
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You have some things to deal with. Seize that opportunity. Try to see all your flaws and correct them.
Girls are like a termometer for many other things. If you crash and burn on this area, sometimes you have other issues to deal with.
I repeat: seize that opportunity. Take that subject, Girls, out of sight for some time. Deal with your problems first. When you're done, you'll be happy and will have all it takes to attract a lot of them.
they rarely approach men
plus a lot of women believe it's the mans job to approach and it's the woman's job to do the attracting
I don't trust that hotornot thing, for starters you don't know who is judging you, it could be
gay guys
stay at home mums
teenage girls
50 year old women
your teacher at school
another guy
People from different races and cultures
or anyone
what matters is the score from the women you are wanting to hookup with. Which is not taken into account on hotornot this makes the score pretty much meaningless.
having said that, 7 is good. doesn't it say you are hotter than 67% of the men on this site or something?
that seems a bit strange to me, how come there are such a high number of men under 7 on hotornot?
another thing to think about is that it is just a picture and there is so much more that makes a person hot, like the way they move and act etc... they should maybe start allowing video clips.
plus the number of votes can have an impact, a small number of votes means the result can easily be swayed one way or the other by only a few people.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
IF you want it go get it, you should do the approaching, mosr of the times youll see a hottie and she wont even notice you, so its on you to approch her, other times she will notice you, and inside her she wants you to approach her but unfortunately in this millenium its the "mans job" to do the approaching and thats programmed in most women minds.
so she will just seat back and wait for you to approach, so now yall both hoping that the other one approaches and what happens......nobody approaches noone, so now yall both are thinking, oh she is so stuck up she thinks she all that, or i guess she doesnt like me.
"damn, what's wrong with me? why arn't I attractive enough for this guy to approach me? maybe it's this dress or my shoes?"
or
"Awww he looks like a nice guy but he hasn't got any confidence, I want a guy with confidence, why don't the nice looking guys have confidence?"
it depends on her self esteem.
but if she gives you eye contact and you don't approach she looses too.