"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
girls don't approach me very often
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You have some things to deal with. Seize that opportunity. Try to see all your flaws and correct them.
Girls are like a termometer for many other things. If you crash and burn on this area, sometimes you have other issues to deal with.
I repeat: seize that opportunity. Take that subject, Girls, out of sight for some time. Deal with your problems first. When you're done, you'll be happy and will have all it takes to attract a lot of them.
they rarely approach men
plus a lot of women believe it's the mans job to approach and it's the woman's job to do the attracting
I don't trust that hotornot thing, for starters you don't know who is judging you, it could be
gay guys
stay at home mums
teenage girls
50 year old women
your teacher at school
another guy
People from different races and cultures
or anyone
what matters is the score from the women you are wanting to hookup with. Which is not taken into account on hotornot this makes the score pretty much meaningless.
having said that, 7 is good. doesn't it say you are hotter than 67% of the men on this site or something?
that seems a bit strange to me, how come there are such a high number of men under 7 on hotornot?
another thing to think about is that it is just a picture and there is so much more that makes a person hot, like the way they move and act etc... they should maybe start allowing video clips.
plus the number of votes can have an impact, a small number of votes means the result can easily be swayed one way or the other by only a few people.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
IF you want it go get it, you should do the approaching, mosr of the times youll see a hottie and she wont even notice you, so its on you to approch her, other times she will notice you, and inside her she wants you to approach her but unfortunately in this millenium its the "mans job" to do the approaching and thats programmed in most women minds.
so she will just seat back and wait for you to approach, so now yall both hoping that the other one approaches and what happens......nobody approaches noone, so now yall both are thinking, oh she is so stuck up she thinks she all that, or i guess she doesnt like me.
"damn, what's wrong with me? why arn't I attractive enough for this guy to approach me? maybe it's this dress or my shoes?"
or
"Awww he looks like a nice guy but he hasn't got any confidence, I want a guy with confidence, why don't the nice looking guys have confidence?"
it depends on her self esteem.
but if she gives you eye contact and you don't approach she looses too.