Dhoulmagus
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but I see more girls with bums than successful guys.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girls come with success
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
JaegerPilot217
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I'll need to see proof of that because if what you say is true then that can serve as inspiration for me so that way I don't have to put my dating life and sex life on hold while I'm working on getting my act togetherDhoulmagus said:
VladPatton
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I believe it. Just because you are "successful" in a certain area in life, meaning money, it doesn't mean women will a-come-a-crawlin. You gotta be first and foremost social. Do things. Meet tons of people, and become a mini celebrity within those circles. Then, with the money you made/are making you in turn support your lifestyle and have a full life.
Having a great business and a cool house doesn't entitle you to have a hot girl. All the money in the world can't help you if you're naturally boring, socially retarded, uninteresting, and have the conversational skills ok cabbage.
Or, you can be a bum who knows how to bang chicks like a porno star and not have a pot to piss in. That's cool, too lol. Life is a series of choices.
Having a great business and a cool house doesn't entitle you to have a hot girl. All the money in the world can't help you if you're naturally boring, socially retarded, uninteresting, and have the conversational skills ok cabbage.
Or, you can be a bum who knows how to bang chicks like a porno star and not have a pot to piss in. That's cool, too lol. Life is a series of choices.
JaegerPilot217
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yup, George Sodini was an example of that, he was financially successful, and yet didn't get laid for 20 yearsVladPatton said: