Dhoulmagus
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but I see more girls with bums than successful guys.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Girls come with success
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
JaegerPilot217
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I'll need to see proof of that because if what you say is true then that can serve as inspiration for me so that way I don't have to put my dating life and sex life on hold while I'm working on getting my act togetherDhoulmagus said:
VladPatton
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I believe it. Just because you are "successful" in a certain area in life, meaning money, it doesn't mean women will a-come-a-crawlin. You gotta be first and foremost social. Do things. Meet tons of people, and become a mini celebrity within those circles. Then, with the money you made/are making you in turn support your lifestyle and have a full life.
Having a great business and a cool house doesn't entitle you to have a hot girl. All the money in the world can't help you if you're naturally boring, socially retarded, uninteresting, and have the conversational skills ok cabbage.
Or, you can be a bum who knows how to bang chicks like a porno star and not have a pot to piss in. That's cool, too lol. Life is a series of choices.
Having a great business and a cool house doesn't entitle you to have a hot girl. All the money in the world can't help you if you're naturally boring, socially retarded, uninteresting, and have the conversational skills ok cabbage.
Or, you can be a bum who knows how to bang chicks like a porno star and not have a pot to piss in. That's cool, too lol. Life is a series of choices.
JaegerPilot217
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yup, George Sodini was an example of that, he was financially successful, and yet didn't get laid for 20 yearsVladPatton said: