"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls come with success

Dhoulmagus

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but I see more girls with bums than successful guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JaegerPilot217

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Dhoulmagus said:
but I see more girls with bums than successful guys.
I'll need to see proof of that because if what you say is true then that can serve as inspiration for me so that way I don't have to put my dating life and sex life on hold while I'm working on getting my act together
 

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I believe it. Just because you are "successful" in a certain area in life, meaning money, it doesn't mean women will a-come-a-crawlin. You gotta be first and foremost social. Do things. Meet tons of people, and become a mini celebrity within those circles. Then, with the money you made/are making you in turn support your lifestyle and have a full life.

Having a great business and a cool house doesn't entitle you to have a hot girl. All the money in the world can't help you if you're naturally boring, socially retarded, uninteresting, and have the conversational skills ok cabbage.

Or, you can be a bum who knows how to bang chicks like a porno star and not have a pot to piss in. That's cool, too lol. Life is a series of choices.
 

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VladPatton said:
I believe it. Just because you are "successful" in a certain area in life, meaning money, it doesn't mean women will a-come-a-crawlin. You gotta be first and foremost social. Do things. Meet tons of people, and become a mini celebrity within those circles. Then, with the money you made/are making you in turn support your lifestyle and have a full life.

Having a great business and a cool house doesn't entitle you to have a hot girl. All the money in the world can't help you if you're naturally boring, socially retarded, uninteresting, and have the conversational skills ok cabbage.

Or, you can be a bum who knows how to bang chicks like a porno star and not have a pot to piss in. That's cool, too lol. Life is a series of choices.
yup, George Sodini was an example of that, he was financially successful, and yet didn't get laid for 20 years
 
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