"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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girls asks "do i look like one of your hoes?"

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How do you respond when a girls says "do i look like one of your hoes?"

She's mentioned it a few times, but I just brush it off and ignore it. I was thinking of saying something like "do you want to be one of my hoes?" the next time she asks. It feels like she's testing me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Not at all!"

Wait for her to chill a bit.

"My hors are hot!"

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Say,

"If you can't see your toes then you are too fat to be my ho!!!!!"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Last Man Standing said:
Say,

"If you can't see your toes then you are too fat to be my ho!!!!!"
What if its because of her boobs? :rock:
 

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I wouldn't try a sarcastic approach...it sounds like she would likely beat you at the sarcasm thing. Never verbally spar with a woman who is better at that than you are...it never turns out good.

What she is telling you when she says that is "I'm not going to put up with you treating me like you treat other girls." If you want to get her interested in you then you're going to have to come up with something new.
 

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'Do I look like one of your hoes?'

Turn it into a mixed bag,respond with something like 'if you are cute,kinda clumsy but yet somewhat seductive then yes.'

Just take some of her good qualities and bad ones and throw them together and tada!
 

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To be honest, her games aren't all that tight... I'm starting to get annoyed. how does she know how i treat the other girls anyway?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was thinking of saying something like "do you want to be one of my hoes?" the next time she asks.
This is some girl you haven't yet done anything with, right?

Your line is a pretty good one, I think. If she's already said it a few times, you could say your line like this (sarcastically): "What is it with all this "hoes" talk? You wanna be one of my hoes or something?"

"Not at all!"

Wait for her to chill a bit.

"My hors are hot!"
Whoah, that's some pretty heavyduty neggage. She better be pretty attractive if you're gonna say that to her. (If she's not hot, I can't see it working out too well.)

I wouldn't try a sarcastic approach...it sounds like she would likely beat you at the sarcasm thing. Never verbally spar with a woman who is better at that than you are...it never turns out good.
How are you supposed to get better then?

You wanna improve at basketball, you take on players BETTER than yourself. You wann get better at a pool, you play people BETTER than you. Why would it be any different with verbally sparring with women? In my experience, chicks are usually not as quick wits as guys, so it's not hard to verbally "outduel" them. But even if they are better than you, that's how you improve.
 

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Also:

[sarcastically]

"What, do you wanna be one?... we'll have to fix you up a bit first, teach you a few things...but I'm pretty sure we can pull it off"
 

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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if she likes you it doesn't matter what you say.

true that!!!

by the way... I would say something like this

"what you talking about, there is no one else"

i.e. u guys missing the point.. are u sure she is asking u "are u treating me like your other girls" or is she really means to ask you "am I the only girl your seeing" ;) girls are cleaver like that... so be clever back.. and be like ..

"what the hell are u talking about, your the only girl im talking to" :up:
 

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Q: Do I look like one of your hoes?

A: maybe. Which one?
 

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chancer said:
"do i look like one of your hoes?" ..
Me (Quizzical look): What does looks have to do it?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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chancer said:
How do you respond when a girls says "do i look like one of your hoes?"
hmm.... I can't tell with all those clothes on
 
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