"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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girls asks "do i look like one of your hoes?"

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How do you respond when a girls says "do i look like one of your hoes?"

She's mentioned it a few times, but I just brush it off and ignore it. I was thinking of saying something like "do you want to be one of my hoes?" the next time she asks. It feels like she's testing me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Not at all!"

Wait for her to chill a bit.

"My hors are hot!"

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Say,

"If you can't see your toes then you are too fat to be my ho!!!!!"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Last Man Standing said:
Say,

"If you can't see your toes then you are too fat to be my ho!!!!!"
What if its because of her boobs? :rock:
 

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I wouldn't try a sarcastic approach...it sounds like she would likely beat you at the sarcasm thing. Never verbally spar with a woman who is better at that than you are...it never turns out good.

What she is telling you when she says that is "I'm not going to put up with you treating me like you treat other girls." If you want to get her interested in you then you're going to have to come up with something new.
 

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'Do I look like one of your hoes?'

Turn it into a mixed bag,respond with something like 'if you are cute,kinda clumsy but yet somewhat seductive then yes.'

Just take some of her good qualities and bad ones and throw them together and tada!
 

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To be honest, her games aren't all that tight... I'm starting to get annoyed. how does she know how i treat the other girls anyway?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was thinking of saying something like "do you want to be one of my hoes?" the next time she asks.
This is some girl you haven't yet done anything with, right?

Your line is a pretty good one, I think. If she's already said it a few times, you could say your line like this (sarcastically): "What is it with all this "hoes" talk? You wanna be one of my hoes or something?"

"Not at all!"

Wait for her to chill a bit.

"My hors are hot!"
Whoah, that's some pretty heavyduty neggage. She better be pretty attractive if you're gonna say that to her. (If she's not hot, I can't see it working out too well.)

I wouldn't try a sarcastic approach...it sounds like she would likely beat you at the sarcasm thing. Never verbally spar with a woman who is better at that than you are...it never turns out good.
How are you supposed to get better then?

You wanna improve at basketball, you take on players BETTER than yourself. You wann get better at a pool, you play people BETTER than you. Why would it be any different with verbally sparring with women? In my experience, chicks are usually not as quick wits as guys, so it's not hard to verbally "outduel" them. But even if they are better than you, that's how you improve.
 

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Also:

[sarcastically]

"What, do you wanna be one?... we'll have to fix you up a bit first, teach you a few things...but I'm pretty sure we can pull it off"
 

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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if she likes you it doesn't matter what you say.

true that!!!

by the way... I would say something like this

"what you talking about, there is no one else"

i.e. u guys missing the point.. are u sure she is asking u "are u treating me like your other girls" or is she really means to ask you "am I the only girl your seeing" ;) girls are cleaver like that... so be clever back.. and be like ..

"what the hell are u talking about, your the only girl im talking to" :up:
 

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Q: Do I look like one of your hoes?

A: maybe. Which one?
 

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chancer said:
"do i look like one of your hoes?" ..
Me (Quizzical look): What does looks have to do it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chancer said:
How do you respond when a girls says "do i look like one of your hoes?"
hmm.... I can't tell with all those clothes on
 
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