"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girls asks "do i look like one of your hoes?"

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How do you respond when a girls says "do i look like one of your hoes?"

She's mentioned it a few times, but I just brush it off and ignore it. I was thinking of saying something like "do you want to be one of my hoes?" the next time she asks. It feels like she's testing me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Not at all!"

Wait for her to chill a bit.

"My hors are hot!"

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Say,

"If you can't see your toes then you are too fat to be my ho!!!!!"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Last Man Standing said:
Say,

"If you can't see your toes then you are too fat to be my ho!!!!!"
What if its because of her boobs? :rock:
 

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I wouldn't try a sarcastic approach...it sounds like she would likely beat you at the sarcasm thing. Never verbally spar with a woman who is better at that than you are...it never turns out good.

What she is telling you when she says that is "I'm not going to put up with you treating me like you treat other girls." If you want to get her interested in you then you're going to have to come up with something new.
 

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'Do I look like one of your hoes?'

Turn it into a mixed bag,respond with something like 'if you are cute,kinda clumsy but yet somewhat seductive then yes.'

Just take some of her good qualities and bad ones and throw them together and tada!
 

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To be honest, her games aren't all that tight... I'm starting to get annoyed. how does she know how i treat the other girls anyway?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was thinking of saying something like "do you want to be one of my hoes?" the next time she asks.
This is some girl you haven't yet done anything with, right?

Your line is a pretty good one, I think. If she's already said it a few times, you could say your line like this (sarcastically): "What is it with all this "hoes" talk? You wanna be one of my hoes or something?"

"Not at all!"

Wait for her to chill a bit.

"My hors are hot!"
Whoah, that's some pretty heavyduty neggage. She better be pretty attractive if you're gonna say that to her. (If she's not hot, I can't see it working out too well.)

I wouldn't try a sarcastic approach...it sounds like she would likely beat you at the sarcasm thing. Never verbally spar with a woman who is better at that than you are...it never turns out good.
How are you supposed to get better then?

You wanna improve at basketball, you take on players BETTER than yourself. You wann get better at a pool, you play people BETTER than you. Why would it be any different with verbally sparring with women? In my experience, chicks are usually not as quick wits as guys, so it's not hard to verbally "outduel" them. But even if they are better than you, that's how you improve.
 

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Also:

[sarcastically]

"What, do you wanna be one?... we'll have to fix you up a bit first, teach you a few things...but I'm pretty sure we can pull it off"
 

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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if she likes you it doesn't matter what you say.

true that!!!

by the way... I would say something like this

"what you talking about, there is no one else"

i.e. u guys missing the point.. are u sure she is asking u "are u treating me like your other girls" or is she really means to ask you "am I the only girl your seeing" ;) girls are cleaver like that... so be clever back.. and be like ..

"what the hell are u talking about, your the only girl im talking to" :up:
 

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Q: Do I look like one of your hoes?

A: maybe. Which one?
 

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chancer said:
"do i look like one of your hoes?" ..
Me (Quizzical look): What does looks have to do it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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chancer said:
How do you respond when a girls says "do i look like one of your hoes?"
hmm.... I can't tell with all those clothes on
 
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