Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hahaha! What would you even do in that situation? hahahahaContrails said:Join the club. I had one backpacker stay with me and sleep in the same bed as me but wouldn't put out. Gave me all the signs initially. I think it was her little game to secure some free accommodation.
This has to be good. Examples?dosquito said:ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
dosquito said:ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
oh mate, i remember one bpd i had oneitis for (who should only have been a ons at best). i remember she didn't want me going up to her room whilst she did what she had to do! i can't imagine it was cleaning the place cos it was a tip when i eventually did go up there. i saw video cassettes with her name on it and I can only imagine what was on there. i really wanted to take one to see. wish i did. also she had a note on her bedside table from some other guy calling her by a nickname and how much he enjoyed his evening with her!!! you'd have thought she would have gone to the trouble of disposing of that at least - unless she wanted me to see it of course.dosquito said:ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Siragoos said:This has to be good. Examples?
Jariel said:I would just amend this a little...
Girls are ruthless UNLESS they are really attracted to a guy.
Girls can be needy, clingy and eager to please and validate themselves to any guy they're really into. For those guys, they make it easy.
But if her interest is low or drops, she has the potential to treat you like sh1t.
It also becomes self perpetuating: if you let her treat you like a king, her attraction will grow. If you let her treat you like sh1t, her attraction will drop.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
she's a liar.Contrails said:Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.
She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
Lmao...stiff ARM that HoJohnny Alias said:Yah. They are ruthless... At least western women. Many have been taught they are princesses from the time they were born and that the world owes them a living. Their sense of self entitlement is unreal. They want what they want NOW. They often don't care who the step on to get it. If they do get what they want then they become bored with it and want a new toy. If they don't get it they throw a tantrum.
It's shocking to realize how many women are actually little girls in adult bodies. Attention *****s, goldiggers, sluts... Oh my.
There are some good ones... Just don't expect many hot chicks to be wholesome. Treat them with disdain because you know their game. Don't believe their well rehearsed acts to get them what they want.
Just stiff armed a rebound today. Blonde Barbie doll. Told her to **** off and take her guilt trips with her... Now she can't stop writing. Hot chicks are easy to come by, but don't think for ONE second that you can change what they really are...
Daddy's little brat princess.
asking as opposed to being indirect is what turned her off. It shows her that u are a novice. Girls want the man to be fully responsible for every step of the seduction process. They do not want to feel like h0es.Contrails said:Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.
She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
power puff girls are underaged buddy be careful, also im pretty sure the best your gonna get is some Hentai porn on them...speak to sageproduct about that...hahah:-) said:when it comes to the dating game.
whoever said girls were made of Sugar and spice and all things nice did us no favours.