She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hahaha! What would you even do in that situation? hahahahaContrails said:Join the club. I had one backpacker stay with me and sleep in the same bed as me but wouldn't put out. Gave me all the signs initially. I think it was her little game to secure some free accommodation.
This has to be good. Examples?dosquito said:ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
dosquito said:ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
oh mate, i remember one bpd i had oneitis for (who should only have been a ons at best). i remember she didn't want me going up to her room whilst she did what she had to do! i can't imagine it was cleaning the place cos it was a tip when i eventually did go up there. i saw video cassettes with her name on it and I can only imagine what was on there. i really wanted to take one to see. wish i did. also she had a note on her bedside table from some other guy calling her by a nickname and how much he enjoyed his evening with her!!! you'd have thought she would have gone to the trouble of disposing of that at least - unless she wanted me to see it of course.dosquito said:ugh I feel ya man I got a lay last night and saw her texts from other guys it was pathetic...the more you see into a girls life the more youll be disappointed 90% of the time
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Siragoos said:This has to be good. Examples?
Jariel said:I would just amend this a little...
Girls are ruthless UNLESS they are really attracted to a guy.
Girls can be needy, clingy and eager to please and validate themselves to any guy they're really into. For those guys, they make it easy.
But if her interest is low or drops, she has the potential to treat you like sh1t.
It also becomes self perpetuating: if you let her treat you like a king, her attraction will grow. If you let her treat you like sh1t, her attraction will drop.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
she's a liar.Contrails said:Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.
She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
Lmao...stiff ARM that HoJohnny Alias said:Yah. They are ruthless... At least western women. Many have been taught they are princesses from the time they were born and that the world owes them a living. Their sense of self entitlement is unreal. They want what they want NOW. They often don't care who the step on to get it. If they do get what they want then they become bored with it and want a new toy. If they don't get it they throw a tantrum.
It's shocking to realize how many women are actually little girls in adult bodies. Attention *****s, goldiggers, sluts... Oh my.
There are some good ones... Just don't expect many hot chicks to be wholesome. Treat them with disdain because you know their game. Don't believe their well rehearsed acts to get them what they want.
Just stiff armed a rebound today. Blonde Barbie doll. Told her to **** off and take her guilt trips with her... Now she can't stop writing. Hot chicks are easy to come by, but don't think for ONE second that you can change what they really are...
Daddy's little brat princess.
asking as opposed to being indirect is what turned her off. It shows her that u are a novice. Girls want the man to be fully responsible for every step of the seduction process. They do not want to feel like h0es.Contrails said:Well well, I got a text from the backpacker today. She left the country yesterday and I didn't think I would hear from her again.
She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
power puff girls are underaged buddy be careful, also im pretty sure the best your gonna get is some Hentai porn on them...speak to sageproduct about that...hahah:-) said:when it comes to the dating game.
whoever said girls were made of Sugar and spice and all things nice did us no favours.