"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girls are ruthless
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Hahaha! What would you even do in that situation? hahahahaContrails said:
I wouldn't want her ass in my bed for free but also wouldn't want any of the other people in the group to think i'm a complete *******. Hahaha
'She only wanted to sleep at night so I kicked her out'
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dosquito said:
True man, once you start seeing most females for what they really are, it will be difficult to trust any other female who comes along.
oh mate, i remember one bpd i had oneitis for (who should only have been a ons at best). i remember she didn't want me going up to her room whilst she did what she had to do! i can't imagine it was cleaning the place cos it was a tip when i eventually did go up there. i saw video cassettes with her name on it and I can only imagine what was on there. i really wanted to take one to see. wish i did. also she had a note on her bedside table from some other guy calling her by a nickname and how much he enjoyed his evening with her!!! you'd have thought she would have gone to the trouble of disposing of that at least - unless she wanted me to see it of course.dosquito said:
Girls are ruthless UNLESS they are really attracted to a guy.
Girls can be needy, clingy and eager to please and validate themselves to any guy they're really into. For those guys, they make it easy.
But if her interest is low or drops, she has the potential to treat you like sh1t.
It also becomes self perpetuating: if you let her treat you like a king, her attraction will grow. If you let her treat you like sh1t, her attraction will drop.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Siragoos said:
*several unreplied texts in one conversation*
"Oh, that's my really good [guy] friend", she says as if it means nothing that she has been blowing off her "friends"
they say this **** like we dont know exactly whats going on
she's "too busy" to hang out with X while she blows Y.
makes me never wanna take things slow with a girl. Can you imagine being that sucker whos thinking about taking her out while shes getting **** on the side? we've probably all been that guy before.
If youre not on one side you're on the other...Im still out here hoping there are some girls who dont play both sides of this coin. Putting up the image of a good girl whenever it's convenient while getting diqq whenever it's convenient
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It's shocking to realize how many women are actually little girls in adult bodies. Attention *****s, goldiggers, sluts... Oh my.
There are some good ones... Just don't expect many hot chicks to be wholesome. Treat them with disdain because you know their game. Don't believe their well rehearsed acts to get them what they want.
Just stiff armed a rebound today. Blonde Barbie doll. Told her to **** off and take her guilt trips with her... Now she can't stop writing. Hot chicks are easy to come by, but don't think for ONE second that you can change what they really are...
Daddy's little brat princess.
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Women are out pursuing their careers and focusing on bettering their lives, while men are out pursuing women.
We make it too damn easy for them.
Pimp-sicle
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Jariel said:
Well said & I totally agree.
PIMP
She said in the text she was attracted to me right from when she first saw me but when we got drunk at my apartment and I asked her to do a 'sexydance' she got completely turned off. I dared her to do a sexy dance while I sat on a chair and she refused and said she wasn't drunk enough. Maybe, it made her feel like a slut, maybe I didn't build enough attraction or didn't escalate right. Oh well, live and learn.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Lmao...stiff ARM that HoJohnny Alias said:
asking as opposed to being indirect is what turned her off. It shows her that u are a novice. Girls want the man to be fully responsible for every step of the seduction process. They do not want to feel like h0es.Contrails said:
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power puff girls are underaged buddy be careful, also im pretty sure the best your gonna get is some Hentai porn on them...speak to sageproduct about that...hahah:-) said: