Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes, and the majority are weak, desperate guys who will work overtime to show what a great guy they are...the kind she wants nothing to do with.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'm sorry, it just doesn't work that way man. You can do that "be a challenge/I'm the Prize" stuff all day long in an attempt to try to make her "qualify" herself. Dude that stuff isn't going to work man, it doesn't work.
It absolutely does. If you do it properly.
A woman that is truly interested in YOU and hasn't commoditized YOU it will work. And she will want to give you a reason to understand and trust her. I agree that for 98% of women it WILL NOT work because most guys to them are just a disposable and replaceable utility.
It works because it makes you stand apart from most other guys she meets. Many guys take this mindset and take it to the exterme, and then say it doesn't work. There has to be a balance, but you have to give off a vibe you have options and don't need her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So you guys are discussing the behavior of 2% of women in the market? You do realize that's 1 out of 50 women right? Let that sink in.......1 out of 50.
You can stand out, say you're the prize, be a challenge, and do all of that.........none of that is going to change anything. Like @mrgoodstuff said, you guys are talking about 2% of women. 1 out of 50 women. Lol, I mean it would be funny if this shyt wasn't so depressing.
You don't "say" anything. It's about the way you behave, the body language you give off and the mindset you have.
Well, if this stuff works for you and you "magically" take a woman who is a rude bytch to everybody else (including many of her family members), but your super, duper, Don Juan, Be A Challenge/Be The Prize mentality makes her "magically" fall in line................then all power to you.
You won't talk to her unless she is decent to you because you love and respect yourself.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Let them. There's a lady for you who wants a man not just a chump.
Where she at bruh?
That's just gonna cause me to be alone, by myself, jacking off for the rest of my life.
Lol. Maybe for a while.
But you ARE settling putting up with 8 and ups B's. Take a 7 and let her mold herself for you.
Don't put up with a b1ches $h1t no matter how "fine" you think she is. Your standard for a 9 should the same standard you use for a 6. Like da dynamically said though, most 8 and up ARE corrupted. Is it really worth the taste of the rotten "fruit", I'm not so sure.
Or the opposite. Women are playing the sex card. Turning off the taps until they get what they want politically [talking mainstream here... not red-pill and slvtty behavior]. Now if the men were in control of their urges, there would have been a Mexican stand-off until the women caved. as it is, now the women in the mainstream have the power, and men are behaving like puppy dogs in order to get some. just another reading.
The problem over here with black women, is that black women who are HB5s and HB6s, seem to put up just as much (or MORE) shyt and other B.S. tests as the women who are HB8 and up.
Twenty long days ago my favorite girl tried turning off the taps until she got what she wanted, I controlled my urge, and have had a Mexican stand-off ever since. Most men don't do this, so she has lots of other options. I can only hope that in the long run this experiment pays off, but it sucks, I won't lie.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
