"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girls are fu**ed seriously....

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I think people should stick to the topic of my thread and story rather then hijacking it with other bullsh1t!!

Couple of questions. Is it worth telling her how much I really liked her? She sent me a text earlier which I haven't replied to saying, she hopes we can still be friends and she wants to call me after work? Not sure what I'm suppose to write back and if I should take her call?
Do not tell her how much you like her. Do not do this.

When she calls, i would just ignore the call but if you must get your last 3 minutes in with her do just that. Give her 3 minutes. Say nothing. Give her zero info, then after her 3 minutes of blah blah blah, say this exact phrase:

"It was good to catch up. I do have to go though. I'm late picking up my date."

Then hang up. Then move on. Next. NC from here in out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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