"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls Approaching Me Again: It's All Good. ;)

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Went to a class today: not too big, not too small, about 40 people.

A girl opened me immediately, as soon as the class started.

I walk in looking for an open chair in an apparently full class. She spots me, immediately pulls up a chair for me to sit next to her, and also offers her desk to share as well.

I think one mistake I made was instead of chatting her up when the opportunity presented, I scanned for some additional hotties. I wasn't quite focused on her.

She did chat me up again maybe four or five times after she opened me, so the interest is certainly there. She would usually do this after some other guy tried to talk to her.

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I think I ran into the hot girl I saw a couple of days ago. She was staring at me blatantly the other day for quite some time, without making any attempt to hide what she was doing. It was almost animalistic, very raw.

I guess it was her: about the same height and weight, and I guess same facial features? We didn't talk the other day, and I didn't stare back; so I'm not sure.

Anyway, she's crazy hot. We were face to face at break, and she just sort of froze and stopped, kind of stupefied. I didn't say or do anything either.

I have to admit, I have been a bit of a hermit the past few weeks, focusing on exercise and recovery and that's just about it.

Hopefully I can come out of my shell a bit. :rock:

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Forgot: there's a third girl I'm working on. She's a shortie and very, very cute. She is just as shy as she is cute, which is very.

I tried talking to her, and all she can muster right now is to agree: "yeah" and then burst out in giggles.

She seems really comfortable talking to people, as long as they are girls. Talking to guys seems to be a stretch for her. She seems like a really cool girl, but just shy.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Heh, you're not being a douche!

I'm starting up a journal. I don't know if there is a field report section or not. I'll put it there from now on. Or, I'll create a journal here.
 

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What was the reason they didnt approach you before for some time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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