"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls Approaching Me Again: It's All Good. ;)

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Went to a class today: not too big, not too small, about 40 people.

A girl opened me immediately, as soon as the class started.

I walk in looking for an open chair in an apparently full class. She spots me, immediately pulls up a chair for me to sit next to her, and also offers her desk to share as well.

I think one mistake I made was instead of chatting her up when the opportunity presented, I scanned for some additional hotties. I wasn't quite focused on her.

She did chat me up again maybe four or five times after she opened me, so the interest is certainly there. She would usually do this after some other guy tried to talk to her.

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I think I ran into the hot girl I saw a couple of days ago. She was staring at me blatantly the other day for quite some time, without making any attempt to hide what she was doing. It was almost animalistic, very raw.

I guess it was her: about the same height and weight, and I guess same facial features? We didn't talk the other day, and I didn't stare back; so I'm not sure.

Anyway, she's crazy hot. We were face to face at break, and she just sort of froze and stopped, kind of stupefied. I didn't say or do anything either.

I have to admit, I have been a bit of a hermit the past few weeks, focusing on exercise and recovery and that's just about it.

Hopefully I can come out of my shell a bit. :rock:

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Forgot: there's a third girl I'm working on. She's a shortie and very, very cute. She is just as shy as she is cute, which is very.

I tried talking to her, and all she can muster right now is to agree: "yeah" and then burst out in giggles.

She seems really comfortable talking to people, as long as they are girls. Talking to guys seems to be a stretch for her. She seems like a really cool girl, but just shy.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heh, you're not being a douche!

I'm starting up a journal. I don't know if there is a field report section or not. I'll put it there from now on. Or, I'll create a journal here.
 

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What was the reason they didnt approach you before for some time?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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