girls and there stupid signs

[Raikojo17]

y do girls always try to give bs signs to show interest or non interest? this one girl i was talking to found a bf and then doesnt respond to me for like a whole evening. the whole thing ended with a fight with her bf and her tellin me that i shoulda got the idea she wasnt intereseted becuz she stopped talkin to me ( altho her bf told her not to). im like "wow a whole evening of not talking, i guess that's a sign of disinterest, yea right" my friends have had similar things happen to them where the chick says she been givin out hints to sho her lack of attraction. girl's signs r complete bullsh!t. they show nothing.. y cant they jus be straight up and say "hey i dont like u"?

 

[Cod3r]

Why do only 5% of the population of the US hold 70% of its wealth ??

Why do I get laid, when other people don't ??

Why did my oneitis girl fvck the other guy instead of me ??

Why anything ??


Figure out how to beat the system, not answer pointless 'why' questions...


-Cod3r

 

[Raikojo17]

sure it is kinda pointless, so lets switch it, any of this happen to u guys?

 

[rrrrr]

they don't want to hurt your feelings.

 

[Thomas94305]

The better I know women, the more I see that anxiety dominates what they do. One day of not calling is NOTHING. That's no signal. But, if she just said things straight up, she'd have to deal with being assertive with you, and that's anxious, just like we get approach anxiety for being assertive in that regard. If she says something straight up, her mind could go through all these scenarios of you getting upset, etc, even though they are far fetched. What she wanted was to be passive about the deal, and have it magically work out, just like being an AFC. Then her getting upset when you asked her about it, that's classical "passive-aggressive". Google on that term to get into the psychology of it.

What I'm saying to you is her actions don't make sense by themselves, until we factor in other crap like anxiety. What I'd recommend to you is to rise above it, don't fall into it. You dealt with her on the up and up. If she respectfully said she got a bf, you'd respect that. So, you can hold your head up about this. Too bad she addressed her anxieties more than you. But, now, you know where things stand. And, in the end, you have the option to approach other women, just like you always had.