“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Girls and their Drama - How to deal with it?

F

foomee

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2006
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
Age
39
Location
California
So I've noticed that with every girlfriend I've had, there is always drama going on within their little group of female friends. I've learned to just stay out of it and go and do my own thing. And as long as she isn't complaining to me, then it's all good.
Recently I've started to get annoyed with my girlfriend and a few of her friends. They all hate this one girl because she supposedly is "fake, a biotch, steals money from them", and so forth. The other night my girlfriend, who never complains or gets mad, even when I kissed another girl one night drunk she handled it nicely, she complains to me that I was being nice to this girl that they all hate. The thing is, I'm a nice guy...I am genuinely one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet and she got mad at me for this. No yelling or anything, just a "what is wrong with you?" kind of thing.
So I'm just wondering, is it wrong to be nice to this girl? She hasn't done anything wrong to me. Or should I be mean just like this group of girls? How do you guys deal with drama with your girlfriends and their friends?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

K

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
Ugh.

You've been doing the right thing thus far.

Never enter into a chick's reality.

They want the drama, they want to cry, and scream and hate and b*tch at eachother until they're blue in the face, compete with eachother, etc and all that garbage so let them.

Continue being nice to this chick and be true to yourself in so doing.

If your girlfriend continues to get p*ssed off about it and uncomfortably in your face about it when you've done nothing wrong calmly instruct her that you have done nothing wrong so you will continue being nice to this person and if she continues giving you trouble that you don't deserve you will explain to her that you will not tolerate such disrespect in your relationship and that if she doesn't stop her whining at you then you can point her in the direction of the door.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top