"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girls and their Drama - How to deal with it?

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foomee

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So I've noticed that with every girlfriend I've had, there is always drama going on within their little group of female friends. I've learned to just stay out of it and go and do my own thing. And as long as she isn't complaining to me, then it's all good.
Recently I've started to get annoyed with my girlfriend and a few of her friends. They all hate this one girl because she supposedly is "fake, a biotch, steals money from them", and so forth. The other night my girlfriend, who never complains or gets mad, even when I kissed another girl one night drunk she handled it nicely, she complains to me that I was being nice to this girl that they all hate. The thing is, I'm a nice guy...I am genuinely one of the nicest guys you'll ever meet and she got mad at me for this. No yelling or anything, just a "what is wrong with you?" kind of thing.
So I'm just wondering, is it wrong to be nice to this girl? She hasn't done anything wrong to me. Or should I be mean just like this group of girls? How do you guys deal with drama with your girlfriends and their friends?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ugh.

You've been doing the right thing thus far.

Never enter into a chick's reality.

They want the drama, they want to cry, and scream and hate and b*tch at eachother until they're blue in the face, compete with eachother, etc and all that garbage so let them.

Continue being nice to this chick and be true to yourself in so doing.

If your girlfriend continues to get p*ssed off about it and uncomfortably in your face about it when you've done nothing wrong calmly instruct her that you have done nothing wrong so you will continue being nice to this person and if she continues giving you trouble that you don't deserve you will explain to her that you will not tolerate such disrespect in your relationship and that if she doesn't stop her whining at you then you can point her in the direction of the door.
 
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