"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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612_Da_Playa

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I think I've been doing it all wrong. I have been doing it this way

"You improve with the girls to improve yourself."

But isn't it you improve yourself to improve with the girls?

Everyone please post.

Here is a more detailed explanation as needed. You don't wanna focus on getting girls first in your life. You want to first improve yourself.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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um...... i'll work with the lack of details, it'll be fun.

if what u mean by improving with the girls is, listening to their problems and trying to help them, then yea, u're doing it wrong. unless u like lots of female friends, then u're right on target!

its true, improving yourself comes first. what girl wants to be with a slob, when she can go with the smart, handsome guy that is holding down a good job? make sense?

i like to put it this way. your life is like a cake. u gotta bake it and shape it yourself. add layers and put candles on it. and it'll be a great cake just like that. but u dont need girls to decorate it. girls are just like icing on the cake. :)
 
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Of course. You should definetly try to improve yourself first. You have to get your act together before you start trying to bring girls into your life.
 
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