"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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612_Da_Playa

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I think I've been doing it all wrong. I have been doing it this way

"You improve with the girls to improve yourself."

But isn't it you improve yourself to improve with the girls?

Everyone please post.

Here is a more detailed explanation as needed. You don't wanna focus on getting girls first in your life. You want to first improve yourself.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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um...... i'll work with the lack of details, it'll be fun.

if what u mean by improving with the girls is, listening to their problems and trying to help them, then yea, u're doing it wrong. unless u like lots of female friends, then u're right on target!

its true, improving yourself comes first. what girl wants to be with a slob, when she can go with the smart, handsome guy that is holding down a good job? make sense?

i like to put it this way. your life is like a cake. u gotta bake it and shape it yourself. add layers and put candles on it. and it'll be a great cake just like that. but u dont need girls to decorate it. girls are just like icing on the cake. :)
 
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Of course. You should definetly try to improve yourself first. You have to get your act together before you start trying to bring girls into your life.
 
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