Girls and Self

[612_Da_Playa]

I think I've been doing it all wrong. I have been doing it this way

"You improve with the girls to improve yourself."

But isn't it you improve yourself to improve with the girls?

Everyone please post.

Here is a more detailed explanation as needed. You don't wanna focus on getting girls first in your life. You want to first improve yourself.

 

[kegger]

Please be more specific

 

[Ace of Flames]

um...... i'll work with the lack of details, it'll be fun.

if what u mean by improving with the girls is, listening to their problems and trying to help them, then yea, u're doing it wrong. unless u like lots of female friends, then u're right on target!

its true, improving yourself comes first. what girl wants to be with a slob, when she can go with the smart, handsome guy that is holding down a good job? make sense?

i like to put it this way. your life is like a cake. u gotta bake it and shape it yourself. add layers and put candles on it. and it'll be a great cake just like that. but u dont need girls to decorate it. girls are just like icing on the cake.

 

[DJ4Real]

Of course. You should definetly try to improve yourself first. You have to get your act together before you start trying to bring girls into your life.