"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls acting mean

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I think I read around here that when girls act all mean and *****y and defensive around you, its just a way of trying to hide their attraction towards you..anyone care to inform a dude about this?
 

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DJ Alejandro

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maybe. we tease girls all the time. maybe its their way of getting ur attention. =)

reminds me of a guy who really acts mean to a girl he really likes so that he can have an excuse to *** to her anytime by saying sorry and stuff like that.

'then that's where it takes off..' = his words exactly. i dont use this tho.:D
 

Microphone Fiend

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I think that in the field, anyone who acts like they like you likes you and anyone who acts like they hate you also likes you. Think about it this way, the people you end up hating are the ones who are more powerful than you or have something you want. (Not 100% true, but more often than not)

Just start being nice to the chick and see where it gets you. Don't expect a change after one positive interaction, give it a couple tries before you right the chick off as a constant meanie.

It gives the person a reason to say why you don't like her. It is one of those reactions people have so that they don't set themselves up for heartbreak.
 

Luscious

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Save yourself the trouble of trying to figure it out - find some girls who aren't mean and defensive around you :).

It's really that simple.:D
 
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