"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls acting mean

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I think I read around here that when girls act all mean and *****y and defensive around you, its just a way of trying to hide their attraction towards you..anyone care to inform a dude about this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ Alejandro

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maybe. we tease girls all the time. maybe its their way of getting ur attention. =)

reminds me of a guy who really acts mean to a girl he really likes so that he can have an excuse to *** to her anytime by saying sorry and stuff like that.

'then that's where it takes off..' = his words exactly. i dont use this tho.:D
 

Microphone Fiend

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I think that in the field, anyone who acts like they like you likes you and anyone who acts like they hate you also likes you. Think about it this way, the people you end up hating are the ones who are more powerful than you or have something you want. (Not 100% true, but more often than not)

Just start being nice to the chick and see where it gets you. Don't expect a change after one positive interaction, give it a couple tries before you right the chick off as a constant meanie.

It gives the person a reason to say why you don't like her. It is one of those reactions people have so that they don't set themselves up for heartbreak.
 

Luscious

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Save yourself the trouble of trying to figure it out - find some girls who aren't mean and defensive around you :).

It's really that simple.:D
 
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