"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls acting mean

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I think I read around here that when girls act all mean and *****y and defensive around you, its just a way of trying to hide their attraction towards you..anyone care to inform a dude about this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Alejandro

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maybe. we tease girls all the time. maybe its their way of getting ur attention. =)

reminds me of a guy who really acts mean to a girl he really likes so that he can have an excuse to *** to her anytime by saying sorry and stuff like that.

'then that's where it takes off..' = his words exactly. i dont use this tho.:D
 

Microphone Fiend

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I think that in the field, anyone who acts like they like you likes you and anyone who acts like they hate you also likes you. Think about it this way, the people you end up hating are the ones who are more powerful than you or have something you want. (Not 100% true, but more often than not)

Just start being nice to the chick and see where it gets you. Don't expect a change after one positive interaction, give it a couple tries before you right the chick off as a constant meanie.

It gives the person a reason to say why you don't like her. It is one of those reactions people have so that they don't set themselves up for heartbreak.
 

Luscious

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Save yourself the trouble of trying to figure it out - find some girls who aren't mean and defensive around you :).

It's really that simple.:D
 
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