Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
conspiracy! to answer my 7 girls question. I can't get a girl I want.
Possibly... I tend to be very aware of people's behaviors and words, and of consistencies and inconsistencies, I have studied psychology, interrogation techniques, manipulation, and other such things. Sometimes I am a bit hyper aware though... And online is not exactly a place where all my learning can apply as well.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't care what you say, I'm not lying.
They don't like it when the table is turned on them. Guys have been putting up with this crap for hundreds of years. They can't handle their own behaviour dropped on them.
I've noticed the same but I don't really care...dude either complains he can't get laid or he has all these chicks crying over him.
Because I don't screw anything with a vagina like some people on this forum. I can't get a girl I actually want.
yeah I guess most of us notice it by now but I really dont care, also 2 other things who are appaling for me, that hilary pic and his name, villain from dragon warrior 7, who is a jester, so I can't really take serious a guy like that
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sounds like discrimination based on my profile!
Don't overthink it. It's just your average troll
That's pretty much why the internet was invented.
Haha I don't think the internet was INVENTED because people were lonely and their real lives sucked and they wanted to make up fake stories to get attention
You are literally the most asinine person on this forum. Who majors in Entrepreurship and takes a 3 month trip to Vegas to learn game?!?!?! In addition, judging your posts, you definitely spend more time on this forum than I do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
