"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls accusing me of leading them on

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I don't do anything with them, but text and hangout. Eventually they ask me for a relationship and I say I don't see you like that. They get all ****** for a week and some have stopped texting me in general. This just happened today and its like the seventh girl. I'm just trying to make friends smh.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The number 7 when corresponding to women appears in a few of your posts... The last time you had 7 girls in a row say refuse you and say no. Now you have 7 girls that just want to be your friends... This happens one after the other in quick succession.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/literally-asked-7-girls-out-and-probably-will-get-a-no-from-all-of-them.234613/

I am seeing trends and inconsistencies... Not just with the number 7 but you also said on one thread that you did not have sex in 5 months, yet on another you said you were dating and having sex with a single mother but was afraid she would bring the kid into it...

You said on your thread "Literally asked 7 girls out" that you "Haven't been laid in 4-5 months"
Yet you say you are getting laid...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/screwing-a-single-mom-with-two-kids.234693/

And that is just a couple of them I have noted from you.

Nothing gets past me... I study psychology, I study people, I analyze people everyday to the slightest behavior and tensing in their face muscles. I can see too many things here that are unusual and do not fit.

Hmmmm... I do not get it... What is your angle? Typically I can deduce this behavior and understand the motivations, but do not quite understand here.
 
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The number 7 when corresponding to women appears in a few of your posts... The last time you had 7 girls in a row say refuse you and say no. Now you have 7 girls that just want to be your friends... This happens one after the other in quick succession.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/literally-asked-7-girls-out-and-probably-will-get-a-no-from-all-of-them.234613/

I am seeing trends and inconsistencies... Not just with the number 7 but you also said on one thread that you did not have sex in 5 months, yet on another you said you were dating and having sex with a single mother but was afraid she would bring the kid into it...

You said on your thread "Literally asked 7 girls out" that you "Haven't been laid in 4-5 months"
Yet you say you are getting laid...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/screwing-a-single-mom-with-two-kids.234693/

And that is just a couple of them I have noted from you.

Nothing gets past me... I study psychology, I study people, I analyze people everyday to the slightest behavior and tensing in their face muscles. I can see too many things here that are unusual and do not fit.

Hmmmm... I do not get it... What is your angle? Typically I can deduce this behavior and understand the motivations, but do not quite understand here.
conspiracy! to answer my 7 girls question. I can't get a girl I want.
 
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Possibly... I tend to be very aware of people's behaviors and words, and of consistencies and inconsistencies, I have studied psychology, interrogation techniques, manipulation, and other such things. Sometimes I am a bit hyper aware though... And online is not exactly a place where all my learning can apply as well.
I almost wish you were lying because your response to my bait was perfect... One word, ambiguity so as to not create further analysis, no outright denial, the one word does not express much emotion, and turning it on me instead of on yourself. That was good, I am adding that to my repertoire. Thank you.
 

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Dude you study paychology and can't figure this out. Some people are lonely and or have fantasy because their real lives suck so they make up these fake story to get attention.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Possibly... I tend to be very aware of people's behaviors and words, and of consistencies and inconsistencies, I have studied psychology, interrogation techniques, manipulation, and other such things. Sometimes I am a bit hyper aware though... And online is not exactly a place where all my learning can apply as well.
I almost wish you were lying because your response to my bait was perfect... One word, ambiguity so as to not create further analysis, no outright denial, the one word does not express much emotion, and turning it on me instead of on yourself. That was good, I am adding that to my repertoire. Thank you.
I don't care what you say, I'm not lying.
 

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I don't do anything with them, but text and hangout. Eventually they ask me for a relationship and I say I don't see you like that. They get all ****** for a week and some have stopped texting me in general. This just happened today and its like the seventh girl. I'm just trying to make friends smh.
They don't like it when the table is turned on them. Guys have been putting up with this crap for hundreds of years. They can't handle their own behaviour dropped on them.

You have done nothing wrong. Don't change to suit their bad behaviour.
 

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The number 7 when corresponding to women appears in a few of your posts... The last time you had 7 girls in a row say refuse you and say no. Now you have 7 girls that just want to be your friends... This happens one after the other in quick succession.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/literally-asked-7-girls-out-and-probably-will-get-a-no-from-all-of-them.234613/

I am seeing trends and inconsistencies... Not just with the number 7 but you also said on one thread that you did not have sex in 5 months, yet on another you said you were dating and having sex with a single mother but was afraid she would bring the kid into it...

You said on your thread "Literally asked 7 girls out" that you "Haven't been laid in 4-5 months"
Yet you say you are getting laid...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/screwing-a-single-mom-with-two-kids.234693/

And that is just a couple of them I have noted from you.

Nothing gets past me... I study psychology, I study people, I analyze people everyday to the slightest behavior and tensing in their face muscles. I can see too many things here that are unusual and do not fit.

Hmmmm... I do not get it... What is your angle? Typically I can deduce this behavior and understand the motivations, but do not quite understand here.
I've noticed the same but I don't really care...dude either complains he can't get laid or he has all these chicks crying over him.

It can't be both.
 

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I've noticed the same but I don't really care...dude either complains he can't get laid or he has all these chicks crying over him.

It can't be both.
Because I don't screw anything with a vagina like some people on this forum. I can't get a girl I actually want.
 

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I've noticed the same but I don't really care...dude either complains he can't get laid or he has all these chicks crying over him.

It can't be both.
yeah I guess most of us notice it by now but I really dont care, also 2 other things who are appaling for me, that hilary pic and his name, villain from dragon warrior 7, who is a jester, so I can't really take serious a guy like that
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah I guess most of us notice it by now but I really dont care, also 2 other things who are appaling for me, that hilary pic and his name, villain from dragon warrior 7, who is a jester, so I can't really take serious a guy like that
Sounds like discrimination based on my profile!
 

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The number 7 when corresponding to women appears in a few of your posts... The last time you had 7 girls in a row say refuse you and say no. Now you have 7 girls that just want to be your friends... This happens one after the other in quick succession.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/literally-asked-7-girls-out-and-probably-will-get-a-no-from-all-of-them.234613/

I am seeing trends and inconsistencies... Not just with the number 7 but you also said on one thread that you did not have sex in 5 months, yet on another you said you were dating and having sex with a single mother but was afraid she would bring the kid into it...

You said on your thread "Literally asked 7 girls out" that you "Haven't been laid in 4-5 months"
Yet you say you are getting laid...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/screwing-a-single-mom-with-two-kids.234693/

And that is just a couple of them I have noted from you.

Nothing gets past me... I study psychology, I study people, I analyze people everyday to the slightest behavior and tensing in their face muscles. I can see too many things here that are unusual and do not fit.

Hmmmm... I do not get it... What is your angle? Typically I can deduce this behavior and understand the motivations, but do not quite understand here.
Don't overthink it. It's just your average troll
 

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That's pretty much why the internet was invented.
Haha I don't think the internet was INVENTED because people were lonely and their real lives sucked and they wanted to make up fake stories to get attention
 

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Haha I don't think the internet was INVENTED because people were lonely and their real lives sucked and they wanted to make up fake stories to get attention
You are literally the most asinine person on this forum. Who majors in Entrepreurship and takes a 3 month trip to Vegas to learn game?!?!?! In addition, judging your posts, you definitely spend more time on this forum than I do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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