"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girlfriend's Spiritual Belief's

iwanttofight

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Hello Don Juan's. I have a question to ask you. My girlfriend is really really religious. She is Catholic. I am catholic too by birth. I was an alter boy when I was like 12 years old. But I do not believe in that sh*t anymore. I consider myself a freethinker now. I think religion is soo f*ching stupid. So I asked mygirlfriend that if I do not believe in religion anymore would you still love me and still want to be my girlfriend? Can you fu*king believe she said NO, wtf. She said if you do not believe in my god we can not be together anymore. I do not want a non catholic boyfriend. I believe love should be more important then someone's religion. What do you Don Juan's think about this? Should I tell my girl my religious belief's even if she would not like it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm in the Mood

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OK, assuming that this isn't trolling, you need to let your GF go and find another girl. If you don't, you're setting yourself up for an unhappy relationship. A girl MUST respect your beliefs, no exceptions. You can certainly still be friends if you want.
 

thebrownman

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I'm in the Mood said:
OK, assuming that this isn't trolling, you need to let your GF go and find another girl. If you don't, you're setting yourself up for an unhappy relationship. A girl MUST respect your beliefs, no exceptions. You can certainly still be friends if you want.
Hit the head on the nail.

Let her go man. There is no future but misery in this.
 

DanZy

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If you don't breakup with her, you're wasting her time. The fact that she cannot tolerate your beliefs and be accommodating is all the justification you need.
 
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