"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girlfriend's Spiritual Belief's

iwanttofight

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Hello Don Juan's. I have a question to ask you. My girlfriend is really really religious. She is Catholic. I am catholic too by birth. I was an alter boy when I was like 12 years old. But I do not believe in that sh*t anymore. I consider myself a freethinker now. I think religion is soo f*ching stupid. So I asked mygirlfriend that if I do not believe in religion anymore would you still love me and still want to be my girlfriend? Can you fu*king believe she said NO, wtf. She said if you do not believe in my god we can not be together anymore. I do not want a non catholic boyfriend. I believe love should be more important then someone's religion. What do you Don Juan's think about this? Should I tell my girl my religious belief's even if she would not like it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm in the Mood

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OK, assuming that this isn't trolling, you need to let your GF go and find another girl. If you don't, you're setting yourself up for an unhappy relationship. A girl MUST respect your beliefs, no exceptions. You can certainly still be friends if you want.
 

thebrownman

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I'm in the Mood said:
OK, assuming that this isn't trolling, you need to let your GF go and find another girl. If you don't, you're setting yourself up for an unhappy relationship. A girl MUST respect your beliefs, no exceptions. You can certainly still be friends if you want.
Hit the head on the nail.

Let her go man. There is no future but misery in this.
 

DanZy

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If you don't breakup with her, you're wasting her time. The fact that she cannot tolerate your beliefs and be accommodating is all the justification you need.
 
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