"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
girlfriends birthday???
- Thread starter 1878
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
sexy_kuta said:
Yea! And how long have you known her? How long have you been together? What did she do for your b-day? etc..
... mmm yer haven't had my birthday while ive been with her...the last month or so we've been really serious....its her 18th too :rock: she loves buying clothes shoes ect like most girls....was thinking of taking my sister out with me to get some clothes shoes?? because there around the same age"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
1878 said:been with her for 6 months didnt know her before i met her...she's a very girly typa girl if you get me
How about insteed of your sister take her shopping! 6 Months isn't that long so don't take it that serious. The reason I said take her shopping instead of your sister is you can make a day out of it. Let her know that you arn't buying stuff for her b-day, you are spending a special day with her, and shopping is a perk.
Spending time is the gift and shopping is the bow. Otherwise it will look like you just bought her something.