"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
girlfriends birthday???
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
sexy_kuta said:
Yea! And how long have you known her? How long have you been together? What did she do for your b-day? etc..
... mmm yer haven't had my birthday while ive been with her...the last month or so we've been really serious....its her 18th too :rock: she loves buying clothes shoes ect like most girls....was thinking of taking my sister out with me to get some clothes shoes?? because there around the same age"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
1878 said:been with her for 6 months didnt know her before i met her...she's a very girly typa girl if you get me
How about insteed of your sister take her shopping! 6 Months isn't that long so don't take it that serious. The reason I said take her shopping instead of your sister is you can make a day out of it. Let her know that you arn't buying stuff for her b-day, you are spending a special day with her, and shopping is a perk.
Spending time is the gift and shopping is the bow. Otherwise it will look like you just bought her something.