“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girlfriends best friend sent me a friend request?

niceguytoalphamale

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Hi guys. So I've been with my girlfriend coming up 4 months. During this time her family added me on facebook, except her best friend. My girlfriend has gone on a trip to visit her best friend for 4 days. We are on day 3 of her trip and I've hardly messaged her. As I want to give her space and time with her friend. Now during this time her best friend sent me a friend request on facebook. Why is this?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Who cares? My GF's friends added me as well. If you don't add them, you may get asked why. If you do and you don't want them seeing your posts, block them from seeing them.
 

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Hi guys. So I've been with my girlfriend coming up 4 months. During this time her family added me on facebook, except her best friend. My girlfriend has gone on a trip to visit her best friend for 4 days. We are on day 3 of her trip and I've hardly messaged her. As I want to give her space and time with her friend. Now during this time her best friend sent me a friend request on facebook. Why is this?
You need to have more of an idgaf attitude. This is the kind of overanalysis that women do.
 

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Simple, GF spoke of you to Best Friend... Best Friend wants to know more about you (through online). You should add her, otherwise you'll get the ''why you didnt add her''

For the rest who cares.. if a bestie adds you = positive.... but it doesn't mean anything for your relationship
 

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Add her.

And if her bestie lusts after you then your girlfriend knows she has made it big.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hi guys. So I've been with my girlfriend coming up 4 months. During this time her family added me on facebook, except her best friend. My girlfriend has gone on a trip to visit her best friend for 4 days. We are on day 3 of her trip and I've hardly messaged her. As I want to give her space and time with her friend. Now during this time her best friend sent me a friend request on facebook. Why is this?
Come on bro, how would we know?

Unless she’s really hot or you are not serious with the gf, I wouldn’t add her. One Facebook add could cause you 2 weeks of grief.
 
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