"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Girlfriend to blame for nofap failure?

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We have sex every day but I also fap about once a day as well. Relationship is good (she does most of the chasing, etc) but I do remember having better sex with exs. Also I think my fapping is just as frequent as it was when I was single for 6+ months.

It's crossed my mind that maybe this girl is the problem (she is very attractive however, a tinder 9). Anyone else have this problem? What did you do about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dan Bautista

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I thought this was going to be some thread where your girlfriend forced you to masturbate somehow. Your lack of self-control is to blame for breaking your nofap streak, not the fact that you don't enjoy sex with your girlfriend as much.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell her to watch your porn with you so that you 2 fvck like that. Or tell her that you want to fvck like pornstars and do crazy sh!t like they do. That'll make the sex so much hotter.
 

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Nobody is to blame for your **** but you.
I couldn't type this fast enough. What your saying is like saying:

I don't really like my house I'm renting, so I broke into another one. Isn't it my landlord's fault?

Find a way to start enjoying sex more with your GF. If you don't, the relationship won't last much longer. Maybe excessive masturbation has something to do with it. If you find that there just isn't any sexual chemistry than you need to cut your losses. Sex is the most important part of a relationship for a man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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