"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girlfriend to blame for nofap failure?

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We have sex every day but I also fap about once a day as well. Relationship is good (she does most of the chasing, etc) but I do remember having better sex with exs. Also I think my fapping is just as frequent as it was when I was single for 6+ months.

It's crossed my mind that maybe this girl is the problem (she is very attractive however, a tinder 9). Anyone else have this problem? What did you do about it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I thought this was going to be some thread where your girlfriend forced you to masturbate somehow. Your lack of self-control is to blame for breaking your nofap streak, not the fact that you don't enjoy sex with your girlfriend as much.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell her to watch your porn with you so that you 2 fvck like that. Or tell her that you want to fvck like pornstars and do crazy sh!t like they do. That'll make the sex so much hotter.
 

SmooveMooves

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Nobody is to blame for your **** but you.
I couldn't type this fast enough. What your saying is like saying:

I don't really like my house I'm renting, so I broke into another one. Isn't it my landlord's fault?

Find a way to start enjoying sex more with your GF. If you don't, the relationship won't last much longer. Maybe excessive masturbation has something to do with it. If you find that there just isn't any sexual chemistry than you need to cut your losses. Sex is the most important part of a relationship for a man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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